by Remedy Wellness Centre | Dec 15, 2025 | Counselling, Mental Health
Top 5 Things People Struggle With Over the Holidays (And How Counselling Can Help)
The holidays are often portrayed as a time of joy, connection, and celebration. But for many people, this season brings added stress, emotional strain, and mental health challenges. Busy schedules, family expectations, and year-end pressure can make the holidays feel overwhelming rather than festive.
Counselling offers a supportive space to navigate these challenges and build coping tools that actually help. Here are five of the most common struggles people face over the holidays—and how counselling can help.
1. Family Conflict and Tension
Spending extended time with family can bring old patterns to the surface. Unresolved conflicts, difficult relationships, and differing expectations often lead to stress and emotional exhaustion.
How counselling helps:
Counselling supports healthy communication, boundary setting, and emotional regulation. You can learn how to respond rather than react, manage triggers, and protect your mental well-being during family gatherings.
2. Grief and Loss
The holidays can intensify feelings of grief for those who have lost a loved one, experienced a breakup, or are missing important connections. Traditions can serve as painful reminders of what has changed.
How counselling helps:
A counsellor provides a safe space to process grief, honour your emotions, and find ways to navigate the season with compassion for yourself. You don’t have to “push through” or hide how you feel.
3. Financial Stress and Pressure
Gifts, travel, and social expectations can create financial strain. For many people, money worries increase anxiety and lead to feelings of guilt or shame.
How counselling helps:
Counselling can help reduce stress by exploring realistic expectations, managing anxiety, and reframing unhelpful thought patterns. You’ll gain tools to cope with financial pressure and make decisions that align with your values.
4. Loneliness and Isolation
Not everyone has a full calendar of holiday events. For those living alone, newly single, or far from family, the holidays can feel especially lonely.
How counselling helps:
Counselling offers connection, validation, and support. It can also help you explore ways to build meaningful connections, strengthen self-compassion, and challenge feelings of isolation.
5. Stress, Anxiety, and Burnout
End-of-year deadlines, social commitments, and disrupted routines can lead to exhaustion, anxiety, and emotional overwhelm. Many people feel pressure to do more while already running on empty.
How counselling helps:
Counselling provides practical tools for stress management, emotional balance, and self-care. You’ll learn strategies to manage anxiety, set boundaries, and prioritize your mental health during a demanding season.
You Don’t Have to Get Through the Holidays Alone
If the holidays feel more stressful than joyful, you’re not failing—you’re human. Counselling offers support, clarity, and practical tools to help you navigate the season in a healthier way.
Whether you’re struggling with family dynamics, grief, anxiety, or burnout, support is available. Reaching out can help you feel more grounded, supported, and resilient—during the holidays and beyond.
📅 Book a counselling session today and give yourself the support you deserve this season.
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by Remedy Wellness Centre | Aug 8, 2025 | Mental Health
Healing with Compassion: Trauma-Informed Counselling with Dr. Scott Aylwin, Registered Clinical Counsellor in Victoria, BC
Healing from trauma can be a long and emotional journey. The right support can make all the difference. At Remedy Wellness Centre in Victoria, BC, Dr. Scott Aylwin, Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC), offers trauma-informed counselling to help people feel safe, supported, and understood.
What Is Trauma-Informed Counselling?
Trauma-informed care is an approach to counselling that recognizes how trauma affects the mind and body. Instead of asking “What’s wrong with you?” it asks, “What happened to you?”
This shift changes the counselling process. It focuses on building trust, understanding your experiences, and avoiding anything that may re-trigger past trauma. The goal is to create a safe space where healing can happen at your pace.
Why This Approach Matters
Many people who have experienced trauma find it hard to trust others. They may feel anxious, guarded, or on edge. Trauma-informed care works to remove these barriers.
Dr. Aylwin takes time to get to know you, understand your story, and adapt counselling sessions to your needs. This approach reduces fear and helps you feel more in control of your healing journey.
Dr. Scott Aylwin’s Background
Dr. Aylwin brings over 25 years of experience working in mental health, addictions, and rehabilitation. His background includes working with people facing PTSD, abuse recovery, grief, and chronic stress.
As an RCC, he uses evidence-based techniques like cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), mindfulness, and narrative therapy. He also integrates grounding exercises to help manage intense emotions during sessions.
What to Expect in Sessions
Your first session with Dr. Aylwin is focused on listening and understanding. You can share as much or as little as you feel comfortable with.
Sessions move at a pace that feels safe for you. Dr. Aylwin will work with you to set small, achievable goals. Over time, you may notice improved emotional balance, fewer triggers, and more confidence in daily life.
Conditions Trauma-Informed Care Can Help With
This approach can support healing from:
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Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
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Childhood abuse or neglect
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Sexual assault or violence
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Grief and loss
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Medical or accident trauma
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Chronic stress and burnout
Start Your Healing Journey
Trauma does not define you. With the right support, you can rebuild trust, regain balance, and create a life that feels safe again.
If you’re ready to take the first step, book a session with Dr. Scott Aylwin at Remedy Wellness Centre in Victoria, BC. Your healing journey starts with feeling heard and supported.
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Recovering from MVA
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by Geeks on the Beach | Jun 2, 2025 | Team
registered clinical counsellor
PRACTICING SINCE 2010
Dr. Scott Aylwin, BA (Crim), PhD, RCC
Scott comes to the Remedy team after a career in Addiction & Mental Health in Alberta. After spending 15 years as a group therapist in the field of Forensic Psychiatry, Scott moved into senior leadership roles in the public health care system. Since relocating to Victoria in 2025 Scott is very excited to resume clinical work as Registered Clinical Counsellor.
Scott views the interpersonal relationship as the most important, and sometimes the most challenging aspect of modern life. Consequently, his approach to the therapy experience is to use the counselling session as a vehicle to explore, de-construct, and ultimately improve the satisfaction clients experience in daily life.
We all have a personal history that impacts our relationships, and Scott is committed to helping clients understand how that plays out in the here-and-now. Scott believes strongly in the strength and resilience of people and will work to inspire and challenge you to be the best version of yourself.
Always providing care from a trauma-informed perspective, Scott will work with the goals that you have. Some clients will benefit from a brief solution focused approach, whereas others will need to spend time integrating past trauma or gaining insight into relationship dynamics and current life stressors. Scott is currently getting advanced training in family/couples therapy.
Areas of Focus
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Couples/Family work
- General relationship challenges
- Paraphilias
- Men’s issues
Scott is proud to be married for 34 years with two grown sons. Scott can often be found walking the trails and beaches with his dogs Archie and Veronica.
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